Shopping Cart
Your Cart is Empty
Quantity:
Subtotal
Taxes
Shipping
Total
There was an error with PayPalClick here to try again
CelebrateThank you for your business!You should be receiving an order confirmation from Paypal shortly.Exit Shopping Cart

Blog

Blog

10 ways you can support the man you love and bring him stress relief.

Posted on July 27, 2020 at 3:25 PM

Your love just might save his life (and your relationship).

 

You love your man, but lately, you’re really starting to worry about him because he's so stressed out.

 

He’s exhausted, edgy, distracted, and maybe even short-tempered. But mostly, it's clear he's carrying the weight of the world on his shoulders.

 

You know he loves you and your family, but he’s just not himself anymore. He’s acting like the typical guy, taking the strong and silent approach to his stress, and the more he sucks it up, the worse he's getting.

Let’s face it, society teaches men not to show no weakness; not even to you. And now, you really miss him. Stress is ruining his quality of life and you know, if left unchecked, stress actually has the potential to be fatal.

 

You desperately want to help him. but what can you do?

 

Here are 10 ways you can support the man you love and bring him stress relief.

1. Size up the situation.

 

First, clearly recognize the warning signs of chronic, dangerous stress levels.

 

Here’s what to watch for:

 

He constantly feels fatigued and irritable (for more than just a few days). In fact, you almost can’t remember a time in the last six months when he was energetic, relaxed and truly enjoying himself.

He has exaggerated reactions to even small annoyances.

He’s forgetful and absent-minded. He can’t remember plans you’ve made, work appointments, or even simple things like picking up the milk you asked him to pick up on his way home.

He’s unfocused, unmotivated and lacks concentration.

He can't sleep. He's an insomniac, restlessly tossing and turning in bed all night. Then when the alarm goes off, he can’t get up.

His libido drive took a nose dive. When you try to initiate, he won't (or can't) get into it.

He’s in physical pain, complaining of aches and pains in his neck, lower back. He has recurring headaches or indigestion.

Stress affects every part of your man’s body and can significantly undermine his immune system. Any one of the above symptoms is a cause for concern. But, two or more significantly increases his risk for flu, colds and may lead to a heart attack, stroke, and even cancer.

Not to mention the toll stress takes on his mind, resulting in poor decision-making, irrational fears, and negative, aggressive behaviors.

 

2. Put some love in his meals.

 

Provide healthy, nurturing food. Avoid overly heavy meals or sugary desserts which negatively impact his already debilitated system. You might even make some delicious superfood smoothies as a power-packed treat. (If you need some free recipes, email me and put "smoothies" in the subject line.)

 

Don't monitor his food like you're his mother, just quietly start preparing meals that help his body thrive during this stressful time.

 

3. Grab his hand and take him for an after-dinner walk.

 

 

Exercise is an excellent stress reliever, so join him to get out and do something fun and physical together. The stimulation helps him move stress and stuck energy out of his body so he can feel better.

 

If he resists at first, coax him into doing something physical without making it about exercise. Focus on spending time together, instead. Take his hand and say "Babe, it's such a nice evening. Please go for a walk with me." Then squeeze his arm while smiling at him. Just let the space feel easy and loving without any pressure.

4. Take a few items off of his to-do list.

 

 

Avoid putting unnecessary demands on him right now. Instead, encourage true relaxation and an early bedtime.

 

Sleep deprivation contributes to heightened stress levels and an inability to cope. Create a good sleep environment by making sure the bedroom is dark and comfortable, and by removing the TV and any other electronic distractions which interfere with quality sleep.

 

Set an example by going to bed at an earlier time and invite him to join you.

 

5. Help him laugh and lighten up.

 

Find a funny movie you both can watch together. Laughter is a fantastic release.

 

In fact, at Stanford University, Dr. William F. Fry studied the positive effects of laughter on the body. He reports that 20 seconds of intense laughter can double the heart rate for three to five minutes. That's equal to three minutes of strenuous rowing exercise!

 

 

Laughter stimulates cardiovascular activity, so get your guy laughing. It's great for his health and your relationship.

 

6. Schedule some quality time with his friends.

 

Social interaction is important for stress management. In fact, surrounding yourself with people who support positive behavior can go a long way in promoting the same in yourself, so any old friends won't do. Health and happiness require being with the right tribe.

 

Make a list of friends and family who contribute to uplifting his spirits and then make a plan to spend time with those fun people (even if virtually for now).

 

Help your man step out of the grind and back into a circle of people who remind him what truly matters in life.

7. Be super sweet to him.

 

Look, your man needs some serious loving right now. Give him a hug, rub his neck, massage his shoulders. Tender gestures reinforce intimacy in a relaxing, non-threatening way that also releases toxins to help him feel better.

Show him some emotional love, as well as physical. Tell him ways you appreciate him. Offer him a compliment or two. Feeling like your hard work matters to someone helps take the edge off.

 

8. Give him some space.

 

This one probably feels counter-intuitive, but allow your man the opportunity to work through his own stress in his own way. Of course, be available to seize the moment when he turns to you. Help redirect his energies in soothing ways. But also, just let him have time to himself if he needs it.

 

This will take some serious mindfulness on your part not to feel abandoned or unloved by him during this time, so make sure to take time to replenish your own energy!

 

 

Stay calm and centered so you don’t inadvertently contribute to his nervousness. Be loving, understanding and supportive without being intrusive.

 

Research shows that seeing their partner stressed and emotional only makes men more anxious and less supportive of their wives. Men are wired differently than women. Respect the difference. Wait to see if he seeks your assistance. If he doesn’t, you can execute any or all of the other steps without him even knowing what you're doing.

9. Fuck Him Silly

If there's one thing that's guaranteed to put a man at ease, it's a mind-numbing

sexual release. Unfortunately, he often is so caught up in making sure you orgasm, he stresses himself out even more.

"Guys become so concerned about performing for you, they're not able to enjoy the sexual experience as much," says Dr. Saltz. "Obviously, you like him to ante up for you, but occasionally, he'll appreciate sex that's all about him and his pleasure."

 

So tell your guy: "Since you're always such a rock star for me in bed, I'd like

to return the favor and tonight just make you happy." Not only are you giving him a free pass, but see how we threw a little ego boost in there as well?

You can further alleviate any pressure to please you by offering him oral sex instead of intercourse.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


 

Just remember ...

 

10. Be his wife, not his mother.

 

Regularly check your ego and make sure you’re functioning from your heart so he doesn’t feel like you’re being bossy or a know-it-all. Your man needs his wife who adores him, not his mother who hovers and fusses.

 

 

In other words, don’t nag him about what he needs. Be subtle and avoid any fanfare or you will contribute even more to his withdrawal and he’ll just worry about you worrying.

 

If he’s not back to himself within a few weeks, you may need professional help.

 

If he has acute hopelessness, depression or recurring nightmares, consult a mental health practitioner, life coach, therapist, or spiritual guide for support. The National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) has programs in almost every community, and many are free.

 

In the meantime, shower him with love, understanding, and patience. Your love has more power to heal him than you realize!

9 ways you can support the man you love and bring him stress relief.



Categories: Health & Diet

Post a Comment

Oops!

Oops, you forgot something.

Oops!

The words you entered did not match the given text. Please try again.

58 Comments

Reply rardDup
8:58 PM on September 23, 2020 
https://somatics.org/forums/topics/20714
or

url=https://linktr.ee/nutakucoins says...
NUTAKU Gold Hack Download Free AUGUST 2020


KW:
NUTAKU Infinite Gold Hack OCTOBER 2020
NUTAKU Gold Hack No Download OCTOBER 2020
NUTAKU Gold Hack Legit OCTOBER 2020
Free NUTAKU Gold Coins No Surveys OCTOBER 2020
Any Way To Get Free NUTAKU Gold OCTOBER 2020
Reply KennethRAl
7:33 AM on December 18, 2020 
Hi, here on the forum guys advised a cool Dating site, be sure to register - you will not REGRET it
url=https://bit.ly/34nj4Ab says...
Love-Angels
Reply DouglasLiz
7:41 AM on December 19, 2020 
??????????? ?????
Reply Rodneyimpom
8:59 AM on December 19, 2020 
?????? ??? ????
Reply Norrispaite
11:03 AM on December 19, 2020 
?????? 90
Reply LesliePhalt
12:20 PM on December 19, 2020 
?????? mp3
Reply GordonHaike
3:27 PM on December 19, 2020 
??????? ?????? ?????? ????????? 2021
Reply JamesFiell
2:34 AM on December 20, 2020 
????? ? ??????? ????????
Reply Michaelwab
5:04 AM on December 20, 2020 
????? ??????
Reply Williamjah
6:05 AM on December 20, 2020 
??????? mp3 ????????? ? ??????? ????????
Reply Williamjah
7:10 AM on December 20, 2020 
????? ??????? ?????????
Reply JohnnyWep
9:56 AM on December 20, 2020 
????? ???????
Reply Manueloreva
11:06 AM on December 20, 2020 
??????? ????? ? ????????
Reply Elliothed
12:11 PM on December 20, 2020 
??????? ??3
Reply Jamescauct
1:10 PM on December 20, 2020 
?????? mp3 ??????? ????????
Reply Kennethsap
3:41 PM on December 20, 2020 
?????? ?????? ??????? 2021
Reply Williamtah
4:39 PM on December 20, 2020 
?????? ?? ??????? ?????????
Reply StevenheX
2:11 AM on December 21, 2020 
?????? ?????
Reply Stevenhof
3:17 AM on December 21, 2020 
?????? mp3 ????????? ????????
Reply AlfredDof
4:26 AM on December 21, 2020 
??????? ??3
0